Hi Lee, I think you were replying to me, the author of this article and Substack, and not Trudy, is this correct? I wanted to make sure before I reply to your comment...
This was worth re-reading 👌. Several times people have told me that I will feel so much better if I forgive. I don’t feel a need to forgive, and I experience such a comment as shame inducing. And the ones telling me will fall into the not-safe group 😌
Thanks very insightful.
Yes, I am able to see the real difference and it’s exactly the way it feels. Acceptance versus forgiveness… learning more everyday 🙏
Wow. Apparently I was meant to read this today. Thank you!
You’re very welcome - Synchronicity strikes again!
Forgiveness is 1st step
Understanding the "why" is much harder.
Accepting never receiving parentental love is extremely important, many don't make it to this place without more trauma.
It's truly a demonic experience.
Thank you very much for your Substack channel, it's extremely important.
Your work is extremely helpful Trudie.
God bless you 🙏
Hi Lee, I think you were replying to me, the author of this article and Substack, and not Trudy, is this correct? I wanted to make sure before I reply to your comment...
This was worth re-reading 👌. Several times people have told me that I will feel so much better if I forgive. I don’t feel a need to forgive, and I experience such a comment as shame inducing. And the ones telling me will fall into the not-safe group 😌
For good reason!